Thread:Koolaidman69boii/@comment-36971458-20190923204140/@comment-36971458-20191213015357

K then

If I were you and I knew that girl well (meaning we talked a lot), I would ask her first through maybe messages or insta or snap or whatever. Ik it sounds better in person, but hey, I have 4 experiences xd. If you really want to be her bf (no, not beef, a boyfriend), then I would suggest that you ask her on social media or whatever in two options: one is to say directly, "Do you want to see the school basketball game with me?", OR, say something different like, "Hey, I gotta talk to you about something (you can also replace "something" with "a matter" to make it sound better lol), so can I talk to you alone during the school basketball game" (you can also take out the "alone" that might seem a bit sus). Once she accepts, be confident. Be as nice as you can, but not too nice (we don't want to raise her suspicions, do we?). If you think she's looking at you, then go this path, be confident. You didn't really specify what you wanted to say, but if you're wanting to date her, say something for a start, like, "Hey, do you wanna hang out at [the] [for once tomorrow or whenever you can]? (The brackets indicate if you want to leave it out or not). Then if she accepts, be excited ig. Dress the best you can. Once there, be as comforting as you can (but not too comfortable). Once that "event" is over, then say something like, "We should hang out again more often." I suggest you shouldn't really say something like, "Do you want to date me?" because that's kinda a different approach, so don't do that. Oh, if you get rejected (hope you wont, good luck ;), then be like, "Oh, it's okay, I understand.". Don't get really off the nice side there, that'll still ruin your image on her.

You can do what you wanna do, but this is what I would do ig

Oh and, gotta say, I recommend actually being in a real relationship in high school. Most in middle school aren't as real. That's how 2 of mine went. Unless you're REALLY committed (trust me, again, have experiences, this was kinda a tough pill to swallow), I would wait till high school, that's where you can get serious.

Ok then, story time. So I was dating this girl I thought that I REALLY LIKED. At the time, it felt like I wanted to marry her (ok, take a moment to laugh, even I do looking back at that xd, this is so embarrasing, but hey, this is the truth). Welp, I loved the first two months of it or so. Then, one jealous FRIEND came along. That's one aspect of relationships. Once in a while, there'll be some idiot who gets jelly of you and your gf. So that's what happened. He tried A TON of things to try to separate us. Once, he put a note that looked a lot like my handwriting that said, "I hate you" in her locker (idk how he knew where it was). I was smh when she told me that. But then, days after, that guy said these words I still remember: "I feel like you're in love with being in love with her." Those words came at me like a bat. Well not suddenly, but once I thought about it, it did. I had liked what she did for me mentally and uhh physically (wink wink lol) but had to admit, maybe he was right. Then she coincidentally had to move to a different neighborhood in our town and she goes to a different school now. Story ended. Feel like this is a basis for all the love in middle/high school. For me, I want a gf for the support of me and because... well, you know. I still keep in touch with her and chat regularly, but now I have a new gf, so feel like she's miffed or something, idk. Story ends. Well, took a lot of time, hope you read that thoroughly and think over your feelings too (not trying to embrace you either).

Any other questions?